How I started writing… That sentence takes me back to primary school, which is convenient, seeing as that was when I first started to write and what this stream of consciousness is about. It reminds me of the assignments we were given as reasonably small children. Those assignments all had titles such as “What I did last summer”, hopefully bearing no resemblance to the movie “I know what you did last summer”, though some parents did undoubtedly feel a bit outed by their children who innocently dished out about their strange family quirks.
Back then writing was as easy and stress free as breathing. It didn’t matter how crappy or nonsensical your writing was, you were bound to get a golden start next to your name nonetheless. My first story was about a girl who was about to get married to a boy she didn’t really want. It all ended with my heroine running away to seek fame and fortune elsewhere. I quite like this story. I like to think it shows that there was a strong backbone and a little feminist growing inside the skinny girl I was in those days. I even illustrated my story with pictures, proudly showing it off to anyone willing or unwilling. These writing sessions were my favorite. I suppose our teacher hoped there might be some budding geniuses among us, and if there was, it is yet unknown.
My writing career then continued with a homemade newspaper my best friend and I stitched together by the kitchen table. We sold it to our parents who I’m sure must have been thrilled to read about the mysterious adventures of our neighbor’s cat. But for some reason our thriving newspaper business tapered off and so did my writing and I would be into my teens before I picked it up again.
I’ve always had strangely vivid dreams and when I was fourteen I decided to channel my half-psychotic dreams and turn them into a story. Funnily enough that was the beginning of the novel I’m currently working on. Like many teenagers I wasn’t at my most confident and self-assured back then and I was most definitely not ready to share my fantasy world with anyone else. So when a friend found my story lying carelessly in my room and started reading it, I was quick to intervene. Embarrassment and some distant cousin related to shame were what I felt, as if I had been caught doing something I wasn’t supposed to. Like you need a special license or permit to do something artistic and slightly out of the ordinary. Looking back it seems strange to feel this way, but it was clear I was not ready to come out of the closet as a writer.
It’s both cramped and crowded in the closet (it’s disturbingly many people hiding in there), yet it wasn’t until last fall that I sneaked a peek out and decided to give writing another go. At first I felt a bit stiff and unsure of myself, I needed to flex my muscles and see if I still had it in me, and luckily, it turned out I did. Before long I was running along at full speed and it felt pretty damn good.
Though I love writing, it does have a dark side. It can be both nerve-racking and stressful. Sometimes the idea of sitting down in front of the computer and start writing seems nothing less than intimidating. The right words keep eluding me, jumping back and forth, gleefully yelling “Catch me if you can!” In moments like this it’s good to know that I’m not the only writer who feels like this. Like Dorothy Parker once said: “I hate writing. I love having written.”
I wouldn’t go as far as to say that I hate writing in itself, it would make all the hours chasing those right words seem pretty wasted, but I get Parker’s point. When I’ve finally managed to write something that doesn’t threaten to send me hurling into suicidal depression, to create something out of nothing, that feeling is incomparable. I can no more stop writing than I can stop being a sucker for every movie and book ever made about vampires (and yes, that includes Twilight…), it’s not a choice; it’s the way I was made. So when annoying elderly family members complain that I’m never going to make something of myself as writer, and why don’t I do something useful with my life, I’ll tell them to take it with the Man Upstairs.
If I haven’t written anything in a while, I’ll get cranky and moody and I need to be locked up in a room with a computer and not let out until the fangs have at least partially retreated. So I like to justify my writing by saying that it makes me a better person and lot less likely to commit homicide. Though why I should feel a need to justify myself I have no idea.
Writing is special, writing is personal and writing can, when it’s done right, open up people’s minds in ways they would never have thought possible. And so I’m done feeling guilty for wanting to spend my time reading and writing. I’ve spent enough time in the closet and I’m not going back in. I might be tempted if I ever come across Narnia in one, but until then I’ll stick to the Narnias in my head and concentrate on getting them down on paper.